Woman seeks advice after her pastor warned her to stop allowing her husband to to¥ch her until he secures a job

A Woman has sought advice after her pastor warned her to stop allowing her husband to to¥ch her until he secures a job.

She said her Pastor does not like her husband and this her pastor is like a father to her. So he said she should not allow him to¥rch again until he gets a job.

The husband on the other hand is good and struggling. Yesterday on her way back from work she saw him doing labour work, he was carrying block and sands in a building close bye she cried her eyes out. He got home with the money and gave her. She refused but her pastor said that he needs to keep doing it.
She is confused because even this morning he has gone back to the site and he has masters degree.
Even her daughter that is 8years slept crying yesterday when she saw her father. She is emotional about the whole thing.